Inspired by Daniella Koontz & Jenn Ross' podcast: Offbeat On Point Episode 4
Let’s be real—those perfectly curated Pinterest weddings are beautiful, but they rarely reflect real-life budgets, stress levels, or what actually matters on your wedding day. If you’re feeling overwhelmed trying to match that aesthetic to your finances, this post is for you.
Let's dive into the big myth of the “perfect wedding” and how to plan something real instead—something joyful, intentional, and 100% yours.
The Wedding of Your Dreams vs. The Wedding of Your Means
You don’t have to spend a small fortune to have a meaningful wedding. It’s all about identifying your priorities—what will bring you and your guests joy—and letting go of the rest. Whether that means skipping favors, crafting a signature cocktail, or renting decor instead of buying it all, there are so many ways to honor your story without going into debt.
We say this with love: no one is going to remember your napkin rings. They will remember how your wedding made them feel.
Spoiler: Your Perfect Venue Doesn’t Exist
Every venue has pros and cons. Some have dreamy photo spots but share space with noisy neighbors. Others look stunning in natural light but sit directly under an airport flight path. We've seen it all—cars in the background, power lines overhead, even an angry neighbor firing up a table saw mid-ceremony.
Instead of chasing perfection, focus on what matters most: Is there enough space for the people you love? Can you decorate it to reflect your vibe? Do the rules (hello, fire codes!) work for your vision? And seriously—read your venue contract. Every single word.
Plan to Make Sacrifices
You may have to trim your guest list, simplify your decor, or compromise on timing. That’s part of the process. The sooner you embrace that, the easier everything becomes.
Some of our favorite weddings didn’t have huge budgets—they had heart. They had couples who leaned into the moment, trusted their vendors, and focused on connection instead of perfection.
Guests Have the Most Fun—And That’s Okay
You’ll be pulled in a million directions on your wedding day. That’s normal. And while your guests are sipping drinks and hitting the dance floor, you’ll be going from portraits to toasts to timelines.
That’s why we always recommend carving out intentional breaks—after the ceremony, during sunset, or even a quiet moment before the reception. Not only do those pauses give you space to breathe, but they make for some of the most beautiful, relaxed photos of the entire day.
You’re Getting Married. That’s the Whole Point.
No wedding day is perfect. But your wedding doesn’t need to be perfect—it just needs to be yours. With the right mindset and a vendor team you trust, you can let go of the stress and soak in the magic.
You’ll laugh. You’ll cry. You’ll probably forget something. But at the end of the day, you’ll be married to your favorite person. And that is what it’s all about.
🎧 Listen to Episode 4: Reality Check
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About the Hosts
Daniella Koontz is the creative behind Koontz Photography, capturing offbeat, heartfelt weddings across Central Florida. With over 15 years of experience, she specializes in documenting weddings that break the mold, celebrate authenticity, and center the couple’s story—whatever that looks like.
📸 Instagram: @koontzphotography
📘 Facebook: facebook.com/koontzphotography
Jenn Ross of Jenn Ross Photography is a wedding photographer and second half of Offbeat On Point. Jenn brings a fun, no-fluff perspective to wedding planning with a background in both photography and performance. She’s known for helping couples feel relaxed, seen, and supported on their big day.
📸 Instagram: @jennrossphoto
🌐 Website: www.jennrossphotography.com
